When someone tells me my shorts are too short, or I exercise too much, or my look is to fake… I go MORE, BIGGER, BETTER! Because there is just too much female judgment in this world- we are so critical of the women around us that we fail to look at ourselves. And I know because I was like that myself- such a big tangle of envy inside me that ate away and made me judgmental and bitchy. And I decided to stop casting my own doubts on other people but to cast them back on myself.
And you know what I found? Not a girl who was better than everyone else, but a girl who didn’t think she was good enough. And so I made the decision to not take what I was given but to get what I wanted- whatever that was! I started exercising, I changed my wardrobe, changed my makeup, and I started pole dance. Who knew how big the changes would be after I started this big old wheel in motion… and the journey is only just beginning… I still have a long way to go but my God have I come a long way already!
And if I can do it, anyone can do it, no matter where you come from physically or mentally, no matter what your personal journey is, the biggest and most important decision you’ll ever make is simply to commit to yourself and show up to your own life! Go find your light- find your own sparkle! Who’s with me?! GGIIRRRLLLLLL! POWWWWERRRRR!!!
With Love, Girl Power, and absolutely No Judgement whatsover!
Gem xxx 🙂 <3